On detached compassion

If we use only thought forms to understand and deal with our problems, thoughts and analysis will engulf us and only cause us suffering. How to get it then? We have to use stillness, letting go and acceptance to open our hearts to understand our situations and who we are, why we do what we do. In the end, if we are whole and complete we would "want" nothing from anyone, "need" nothing from anyone but we also can provide compassion, love and care and refrain from hurting.

This would produce a healthy balanced companionship. Happiness is a shared pool of existence where we both contribute but we are both whole, happy and content with or without the other. Finally, relationships are not meant to dissolve one person into another, as romantic as this may sound, a true happy companionship is a whole in two and a whole in one.