On hurt and hurting

If someone hurts you, just know they are hurting themselves, hurt breeds hurt. You might think you love them or is good for them but maybe your very act of love hurts them in ways you may never understand.

 Maybe they hurt because of their own resistance to accept what has passed in their lives and their unwillingness to forgive themselves or others.

Whatever it is, keep sending love, let go and move on. Allow them the freedom that is their right to choose, to grow and to find their path. Sometimes we feel someone is our rescue mission while we are just hindering them and ourselves from moving forward.