On letting go

One of the sad facts of this physical existence is our limited ability to save those whom we care about of their destructive patterns and programming unless they reach enough awakening level to work on them and accept change for their own benefit.

We are going to watch those patterns hurt them, we will witness them hitting the proverbial walls in their "absent" state making the same mistakes and repeating the same plea for happiness that failed them once again.

Acknowledging our inability to help them and constantly sending love while accepting that they have to find their path on their own are all our gift to them and the freedom of our souls to continue in our own sole journey.

We may fail to see our responsibility towards ourselves and our need to work on our own journey. This is our true challenge.   In the same time we have to understand people have free well and choices and they need to grow on their own base.

Every experience helps us to grow if we choose to make it so. It is said in that the enlightened would perceive no experience to be good or bad, all experiences are as good or bad as we allow them to be. Through acceptance and forgiveness every experience becomes good, we turn it to a learning and growth opportunity.